Wah How to use "Would you mind"

1. We use Would you mind + Gerund to ask politely someone to do something for you.

Would you mind doing something?
not Would you mind to do something?

• Would you mind opening the window? (Could you open window for me?)
• Would you mind giving me more information?
• Would you mind helping me?
• Would you mind not smoking here?
• Would you mind not talking here?
• Would you mind not making so much noise?

2. We use Would you mind + If to ask politely for the permission.

Would you mind if I opened the window? (Could I open the window?) 
or
Would you mind if I open the window?

Note: They have the same meaning but opened makes the request a little more polite.

• Would you mind if I brought a friend to the party tonight?
• Would you mind if I borrowed your car?
• Would you mind if I smoked here?

Would you mind not making me fall in love with you?

Wah How to use Get Someone To Do Something.

We use Get Someone To Do Something to arrange / ask / convince someone do the something for you.
We usually use this form in spoken English.

Get + Person + To + Verb

• You have to get him to help you. (You have to ask him to help you.)
• I tried to get Rosa to learn to drive. (Rosa agrees with me to learn to drive.)
• I will get James to repair this watch.
• Shall I get him to call you?
• I will get them to come here the day after tomorrow.
• I don't want to clean my room, I will get Andy to do it instead. 
• John was busy all day, he got his assistant to check an email for him.
• Annie got her son to take the medication although it tasted terrible.
• How can I get my children to read more?

Look at these sentences

• She will get him to repair this watch. (She is not in a position to simply tell the person what he must do. But he agrees to do it on his own terms.)
• She will make him repair this watch.  (She forces him who doesn't not want to repair this watch. Maybe she has an authority.)

Sara gets the mechanic to repair her car.

Wah How to use "Indirect Questions"

We use Indirect questions when we speak to someone we don’t know very well, or in formal situations. Indirect questions are often a little more formal and polite than direct ones. 

    Direct: Where is the post office?
    Indirect: Could you tell me where the post office is?

    Direct: Which hotel are you staying at?
    Indirect: Can I ask which hotel you are staying at?

    Direct: Who is that beautiful woman?
    Indirect: Could I ask who that beautiful woman is?

    Direct: What time does the store open?
    Indirect: Do you know what time the store opens?
    Note: We don’t use do,does or did in indirect questions  

    Direct: How much does this mobile phone cost?
    Indirect: Can I ask how much this mobile phone costs?

    Direct: Why did you resign from your job?
    Indirect: I was wondering why you resigned from your job. 
    Note: This statement is a request that ask someone to give more information, so this indirect one is not a question.

Wah How to use "Tell + How / Where / When / What + To + Verb"

If you want to ask someone what you would like to know in short, you can use...

Please tell me how to spell your name. (How do I spell your name?)
Could you tell me how to get to Wah Wasabi Street? (How do I get to Wah Wasabi Street?)

You don't always have to use them with tell:

I didn't know where to get the bus. (I don't know where I can get the bus.)
I want to take a trip this summer, but I don't know where to go.

Would you tell me when to check out of the hotel?
Tell me when to start?   

I don't know what to do now. (I don't know what I should do now.)
I don't know which one to buy.
For all his experience, he had no idea what to do with it.
I am in doubt what to do with him.

"Tell me what to do about you
I already know I can see in your eyes
When you're selling the truth
'Cause it's been a long time coming
So where you running to?
Tell me what to do about you..." from What To Do - DEMI LOVATO